My friend is driving me crazy.  She is having a nightmare of a time getting through her last semester in college.  She has just come to a point where she seems to be burned out.  There is no more push in her.  I thought she needed a break, so I took her along to Grandma’s for an afternoon of relaxation.  But she decided she would stay in the room and rest.  Then she got a whiff of food cooking in the kitchen and decided to come join in.  After a while, she was laughing and enjoying herself.  Grandma said she knew that cause of hair loss was just too much stress, and my friend needed to take better care.  Grandma was right of course.  My friend decided to start by handling one thing at a time.  She decided she felt renewed and would get through this last semester of college.  Then she would see what she wanted to do.  She realized she had been trying to decide her future before she even got out of college, and was torn between staying here or going out West where some of her family has moved.  I don’t think she really wanted to go.